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Overthinking leads to create distance

If you allow a person in to your life without knowing about them.                                            Will you accept the way they are ( or) accept them the way they have to be with you Have you ever thought once in your life...? Two opposite personalitys, who are quite different to each other... Is it wrong to say them be like this, behave like this...??You are comfortable with them is the reason you are discussing about them how to be with you Fine, if you accept the way they are, then you too expecting them to accept as you are Is it ok to you, to change your personality, way of talking for them ...?? then are you honest  for your heart ...?? I think every one has  thought about it atleast once If you value your relation... you have to understand each other thoughts &  respect emotions. Situations might put you in dilemma, its  a game of time Save your relation by balancing & controlling your overthinking 

Be selfish to yourself ... For being happy

Do you ever tried to spend time for yourself in this hectic schedule....??                                Yes or No                         Be true to yourself Spend some time to yourself , take care of your body, Pamper your heart, Keep saying to your mind being strong ... Dont allow anyone to do the above things ,if you really care for yourself  Being selfish to yourself doesn't mean you have to selfish with everyone in every situation  Just do what ever makes you happy without hurting anyone

Help ....Instead of showing grace

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Mercy is a quality which is concealed in deep heart. we find this often in individuals. we gona take relation ahead and endless .we put efforts to comfort them.Help them out, instead of expect, it shows a great nature. so don't show pity ,mercy, compassion  just show your love standing behind them. So just be different and lovable

Beauty of a flower

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Every creature in this world has their own beauty... Everything can compared but it can't be created same It's ok being in dark & looks different that's beauty of heart which is eternal  Believing is what we see but there are many hidden beauty which can't be explained & it can't be resisted 

Hurt a person saying truth

Strangers started their friendship to be and behave as good by promising eachother talking without ego .... Every relation build upon trust,saying truth  is good it may hurt for sometime,but saying lie to a person is wrong it may create happy environment for a while.....But when the truth comes infront of them can break a bond which has took years to build and have to phase may consequences ....So it's better to hurt by saying truth instead of saying lie. Atleast there is a chance to trust words

Don't pluck plants ....if you love them....

We can't even bare the smallest pain ... Just we would scream,scold, cry etc.... Then what about plants,trees,greenary...? With out expecting anything from us they are giving  oxygen to live and fulfilling our hungry with their fruits. when sun is high they provide good shade and cool air by sacrificing them selves to help us. What we are doing to repay them .....?cutting them, uproot them why.....? Watering plants is not a big deal .....some plants can grow with out water,sand & sunlight ... If we love some one , we expect that same  un conditional love from them. But these green friends are not like us....They are giving without expecting any thing from us .... Not intrested in watering plants...ok fine.... Atleast don't uproot them...

Sitation can create to build a bond & to break a bond

One situation can creates to meet with strangers accidentally....they try to solve problem, helps us & creates a special place in our heart ,we thinks every thing is going good...but we don't know one fine day we are going to leave them....  Situations & conditions can creates both to build a relation & it leads to break a bond  We are not wrong but it creates a situation from where we can't save the bond and we lose the relation .